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In the video your voice sounds pretty feminine. Looks like you had no luck with your voice.

How is it possible, you have better arms than me lol 😂😢

Listen cant FTM guys make kids with girl

Dont really have a lot of tips regarding post surgery that werent covered. A few notes. 1. Prune juice instead of stoll softeners. Every person who underwent surgery that I know says it works so much better and quicker! 2. Get a neck pillow for sleeping. And sleeping on a recliner helps so much. With LOTS of pillows

Ok, so I’m glad I came across this. First off… I’m guilty. I’m ftm, pre T and started taking a testosterone booster. First couple days it made me not feel the greatest. But obviously in my own head I was like, this must mean it’s working! But you’re right!! I DO NOT want to mess up my chances of being able to be on testosterone for real. So needless to say , as I watched this video , I threw out over 100$ worth of testosterone boosters. But I’m grateful because literally the last thing I’d want to do is mess up my chances of really being on testosterone. Thank you thank you thank you!!!! For putting some sense into my head.

I have everything ready, the only thing left is to give myself the shot but I'm scared so I'm watching rn

i'm on the chubbier side and my hips and thighs are much larger than i wish they were. I really hope i can get over it as I work to lose weight

I had a top surgery almost three weeks ago. When you start working out. Does affect my surgery if I start after 6 weeks?

Where are you guys? Some of us love you both and like myself, look forward to this podcast 😫😭😭

Was on T from 2013-2021. I stopped because of balding. I look exactly the same thick beard, hair grew back in and no fat redistribution etc and I have my hair back. I also got a hair transplant to fill in what didn’t come back fully.

i remember searching up these videos when i was trans, that gender dysphoria was something else it only did harm to me. i want to let you know there’s someone better out there for you, His name is Jesus Christ, He loves you so much you have no idea, he saved me from being trans when it was the thing that tore me apart and made me feel like i was wearing a costume, and he saved me from so many more traumas he just wants a relationship with u and to be with u forever in Heaven.

Miss the pod! Are y'all going to bring it back?

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I’m a guy and I have wider hips than you dude

Your hips are Hot! 😅

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You’re afraid to raise a boy because you don’t know anything about manhood and you will never be a father figure to him + you’ll end up feeling jealous of him since he’s biological male which something you always wanted as a mentally disturbed person

I’m 32 ftm just starting my transition process. Came out to everyone two years ago. I identify as ftm even though from a young age I was aware that I wished I’d been born in a male body. But I also didn’t hate my body. In 4/5th grade gender separation task started happening at school and then eventually I was encouraged or sometimes not allowed to wear my brothers handme downs anymore. I always disliked feminine aesthetics things. Clothes,make up, hair style. But not “feminine” interests (hobbies). I liked stuffies, Barbie’s (but liked “action figures”more) but I preferred to play alone so I could pretend the boy identifying toys were me. I love how being raised female has shaped my mentality and personality.

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I don’t have a fear of needles but my hands shake really bad, does anyone have any tips for stabilizing my hands?

It’s so unfortunate that your video, where you clearly added a disclaimer that this issue doesn’t affect everybody (and clearly isn’t a reason NOT to undergo HRT) , was used in a hateful and fear-mongering article- but accidentally stumbling onto that article led me to your video! Your experience isn’t exactly the same as what I’m experiencing, but your video makes me feel less alone knowing that other transmascs experience pain during orgasm :p

Aydian I highly want you make a short video in UA-cam . Please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please. I love your smile I love your action ❤ please 😢😢

Hii Aydian you in indian god . I am also Indian I love ganpati. ❤ Love you bro

Cool podcast 👍 In Hinduism they acknowledge that winter is a time of rest for most things but that the human being has the ability to rise above the cycles so they are intentionally extra active at those slower times 🙏 You might really enjoy this program I’ve taken from a man from India called Inner Engineering 🫶 you can find info online if you feel like checking it out. I’m moving to India soon to learn from him and his ashram. All the love guys!

I think trying to bully or shame people into dating trans, is rude and disturbing. How dare you try to force people to change their sexual orientation. A straight person will not want to engage (be sexually intimate) with someone with the same genitals as they have, and it is their right to date and have sex with who they want. This should not even be an issue. It is not the public's responsibility to validate your gender identity by sleeping with you. You need to calm down and think rationally about this. Like everybody, you put yourself out there on the dating scene and open yourself up to meeting people. Some people are going to be accepting and others, not so much, but it is ok, you cannot get angry with people for not wanting what you want. You just keep trying until you meet someone who is compatable. However, I think that one of the reasons why some"cis" people saying that they will not date or be intimate with someone who is trans is so upsetting to you is because subconsciously, being with a cis partner is the ultimate validation of your gender identity.

had top surgery 2 months and 3 weeks ago and have been massaging the scars like 40 seconds top each and i was NOT doing it the right way ty for this video hopefully i’ll reverse the damage i’ve caused by letting the scars build up and raise in some places 😭🙏

I was 35 when I started T. 38 when I had top surgery. I remember being super upset and confused when I was “misgendered” here and there. But I agree with folks here, I went inward and explored my internal power to not let it phase me as much. I will also say I identify as non binary. It’s strange being on T with a beard and being seen as a man honestly when I am just me, neither binary category and all the above. If I am being super real though, we partially define gender as a mental understanding. Not many folks can read minds! (Yet). How I have come to really accept it is in approaching it in that way. How do people know my gender until I inform them of it? They won’t though and therefore especially being non binary on T for 5 years, being called whatever by strangers and accepting feels like sweat rolling down my face now. I will educate those I want to be in long term relationships with. Otherwise sending love to everyone else who defaults to surface assumptions. I assume as well, sadly😅

If you were being misgendered, I'm thinking it's because of your voice, don't mean to be rude, but your voice does sound more feminine, another thing might be height, that's all

To anyone watching this and doubting the top-surgery will ever happen for them, as i did 5+ years ago - it will, one day you'll re-watch this making sure to be in the best shape for it, and it'll feel surreal. Small steps, my good men, small steps will take you there.

Having hips is the sexieat thing It will give you the oblique muscles you are looking for!

for me, i’m 17 and been out for 3 years, not on t. Ive been misgendered less and less recently, but when i do i react similar to you, Aydian. I just ignore it, try to make the interaction as short as possible and move on. However whats worse than being called she or maam is people asking ‘are you a boy or a girl’ because then i either have to out myself or misgender myself and it puts me in a really awkward position. Also i feel like awareness of LGBT people has caused more misgendering, because some people are trying to be supportive and know that sometimes women can look masculine so they call me a woman to support me and it makes it worse, seems like it was a lot easier 10-15 years ago

Handling being misgendered is part of the journey. I would offer to please keep in mind most of these short interactions are very innocent and not intentionally hurtful towards you. You know who you are but most of these people are just being human and acknowledging you with their own lens they have lived through. Keep doing you. This stage will pass brother.

As a trans guy, my question is honestly when did the lgbt become so woke. No disrespect honest question

12 years ago...

Me perdonaly whouldent date a trans woman bc thats a man

Shaved my head (again) too! We old AF! I am almost 43 (been on T for 7? Years) Shoot, i can’t keep track! It’s funny how we can remember being that age and looking differently at older folx….now, we are those “older folx” 🤣

You'll always be cool, Aydian! I'm a year older than you, and it's definitely odd being so close to 40, but it's a great feeling not having the self consciousness of our 20s anymore! I'm with you on the younger generation having great energy. They've also brought millennial fashion back, so they obviously know what's up! Lol.

Very relatable! I’m almost 8 years on T and my hair has thinned significantly since I was younger. It’s hard not to fixate on it. Now I just shave my head partially to mitigate my focus on it and partially for the ease.

Thanks 🙏🏾!!! I am a black autistic transmasc nonbinary woman, I am masculinizing my body naturally through working out and eat clean plant based foods without taking T, I am started to see changes and I love it

Hi Aydain.. if it's affecting you so much.. why don't you go the medical route? Hair implants. There is another Trans man, Jaimie Wilson who had that done with great success. I'm a 1986 baby and as a lesbian lady im also having problems with hair thinning out.. it's such a mental struggle. Hope this helps. Hi all the way from South Africa 🇿🇦

I love the age comparisons. 😅👍 I'm 47, and watching TikTok just makes me feel like the world passed me by like a decade ago lol I sit and watch, but sometimes I'm completely baffled and confused. I know how my parents felt now when the first Atari game console came out 🫣👀 I just jumped into social media a few years ago, I finally decided to see what I was missing. I used to just watch UA-cam, but jumping into TikTok and Instagram really is fun (even if no one sees my posts because I'm not trying to be the next latest and greatest)! My friends tease me that my hair is thinning (I'm trans nonbinary/queer), and I tell them that I "earned!" my thinning hair and I'm proud of that and that it's going gray! Now the only reason I wear a hat is so that I don't sunburn my scalp 🤔 I have gone full Brittney a few times before though too, I have a weird shaped head haha

Thanks for sharing. I am just over 5 years on "T". My hair started thinning about 2 years ago. At first I thought it was my imagination, I was just paranoid. But no, my doctor noticed it was thinning also. Mostly frontal. I decided to go on Finasteride to slow the process. It's only been maybe 7 months on this drug, so I guess time will tell. At this point, I really don't want to lose my hair. I'll decide later on if I continue on this or not. So far, no real side effects. I also don't have much of a beard. If it ever grows in a bit thicker, I might be less inclined to worry about hair loss, but right now, it's not very balanced.

Just a few things. Love the new haircut! Also you look amazing with a buzzed or shaved head. It looked great. Finally as a cis male I’ve had these same thoughts and feelings and even fully expected hair loss but was never fully prepared for it. I buzz my hair now and experimented growing it out but I had very similar hair to yours with just a more pronounced bald spot in the back rather than receding hairline. Love your videos and keep it up buddy. You look great no matter what you do

I want to know what videos you watched now

It's funny that this video was recommended to me. I'm a trans man but only 8 months on T, so not too much changes. My hair is still pretty lush but lately I've been wanting to cut it all off. I guess I should enjoy it while I have it, but on the other hand being bald is so masculine and honestly an attractive look. Dysphoria makes you do weird things I think. The body does what it does, too. It's hard to let go of control over things you cannot change. Life is a journey for sure.

I think you rock with no hair imo

I think hair loss is so difficult for trans men because we kinda ‘chose’ it by going on t, even though it isn’t really a choice. Luckily its not something i’m worried about, as my dad is nearly 60 and has a full head of hair

Have you considered taking anything for hair loss? I’ve been taking the Hims brand vitamins for like four months now, they say it takes 6+ months to notice anything but I feel like it’s helped the thinning slightly. I didn’t mind the receding hairline too much, but the thinning on the top really got to me also. It does help when you start noticing that the majority of men deal with it though!

I am a transguy taking testosterone since the year 2016. My hair gets thinner since 2019. I always wear a pompadour like Elvis because I love Rockabilly. So last year I went to turkey for hair transplantation. I am now 6 months post Hair transplantation and I am very Happy. I would do it again

looks amazing shaved, very cool, very cool 😎😎😎!!!